The only cure for this miserable situation is to get negative with your man. Start being busy. Go out with your girlfriends. Change your hairstyle. Redo your wardrobe. Start wearing spicier clothing a la Victoria Secret, high heels, and fishnets. For you girls who are not getting your husband aroused any more, this might help.
As a last resort, you might even try plastic surgery. Breast enhancement is a pretty well settled science now and the girl with the biggest breasts usually wins. Remember, to get this guy off of dead center, you've got to do something to steam him up.
The hottest TV shows today are these makeover shows. We all could use some help sometimes. In my client list, I have some wonderful plastic surgeon friends that would not take your money in vain. You'll get the results they promise you.
Speaking of plastic surgery, there is a wonderful new preparation out called StriVectin. Applying this cream is akin to getting plastic surgery to remove those lines, wrinkles, even stretch marks. Many women have told me that it's a miracle and that it's inexpensive and safe. Crows feet, tiny lines, lip lines, it does them all. I would suppose that it should work on men, too.